Season 3, Episode 10
In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Fancy Feast—writer, burlesque performer, and sex educator—to break down barriers around sex, communication, and sexual health.
Together, they explore the importance of open communication in sexual relationships, and how honest dialogue can deepen intimacy, clarify desires, and strengthen connection. The conversation also dives into non-monogamous dynamics, examining how relationship structures can be consciously designed to reflect individual needs, boundaries, and values.
Drawing from her experience in the burlesque world, Fancy Feast shares powerful insights on body positivity, self-expression, and navigating intense emotional and sexual relationships. She also introduces a role-playing exercise designed to help partners explore sexual preferences and boundaries in a safe, intentional, and playful way.
This episode is an empowering and thought-provoking discussion that challenges societal norms around sexuality, while offering practical tools for healthier, more connected intimate relationships.
What You’ll Learn
• How communication shapes healthy sexual relationships
• Insights into exploring non-monogamous relationship dynamics
• The influence of society on sexual desire and expression
• How burlesque can inform body positivity and self-confidence
• Practical role-playing tools for discussing boundaries and preferences
• How to navigate intensity in intimate relationships
Connect With the Guest
Fancy Feast
Website: https://fancyfeastburlesque.com
Book: Naked: On Sex, Work and other Burlesques
Resources from Eve
The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/
30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/
Connect With Eve
Website: https://pleaseme.online
Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com
Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast
Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast
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