Season 3, Episode 9
In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Karen Anne Coccioli, erotica writer and voice within the LGBTQ+ and kink communities, to explore sexuality, identity, and the journey of coming out later in life.
Karen shares her deeply personal story of navigating two heterosexual marriages before embracing her lesbian identity, offering a powerful perspective on self-discovery, courage, and transformation. Together, Eve and Karen unpack the complexities of sexuality and identity, challenging societal norms—especially the pervasive myths around ageism and older women’s sexuality.
The conversation also dives into Karen’s work as an erotica writer, and how her experiences within LGBTQ+ and kink communities shape her storytelling. She highlights the importance of representation, visibility, and authentic expression in literature, while dismantling stereotypes that limit how women—especially older women—are perceived in relation to desire and pleasure.
This episode is an honest, liberating, and thought-provoking exploration of sexuality across the lifespan—inviting listeners to embrace their truth, challenge outdated narratives, and redefine what it means to live authentically.
What You’ll Learn
• Karen’s journey from heterosexual marriage to embracing her lesbian identity
• How sexuality and identity can evolve later in life
• The impact of ageism on women’s sexuality and self-expression
• Insights into erotica writing and representation in LGBTQ+ and kink communities
• How to challenge societal norms and embrace authentic desire
• The importance of visibility and storytelling in sexual empowerment
Connect With the Guest
Karen Anne Coccioli
Instagram/Facebook: Author Annie Moon
Resources from Eve
The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/
30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/
Connect With Eve
Website: https://pleaseme.online
Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com
Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast
Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast
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