Season 3, Episode 17

Embracing Identity and Kink: Jake Didinsky on Puppy Play, Furry Play & LOBO Parties

In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Jake Didinsky, a trailblazer in creating inclusive spaces within the kink community through puppy play, furry play, and conscious event culture.

Jake, who presents as non-binary and is open to all pronouns, shares how their identity intersects with their experiences in kink and self-expression. They open up about how puppy play and wearing a hood can serve as grounding tools for managing anxiety, building confidence, and accessing a more embodied, liberated sense of self.

Together, Eve and Jake explore how kink can be a powerful space for neurodivergent individuals and anyone seeking alternative forms of emotional regulation, identity exploration, and connection. Jake also shares the vision behind LOBO parties—immersive, inclusive events designed to celebrate individuality, desire, and freedom without judgment.

This conversation highlights the importance of safe spaces where people can express themselves authentically, and how kink communities can foster acceptance, healing, and empowerment when built with intention and care.

This episode is a powerful exploration of identity, embodiment, and community—challenging stigma while celebrating the diverse ways people experience pleasure, play, and connection.

What You’ll Learn
• How puppy play and furry play support emotional regulation and confidence
• The intersection of neurodivergence and kink-based self-expression
• How identity and kink can support deeper self-understanding
• The importance of inclusive, judgment-free spaces in sexual communities
• The vision behind LOBO parties and conscious event design
• How kink can be a tool for embodiment and healing
• Breaking stigma around alternative sexual expression

Connect With the Guest
Jake Didinsky
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/jakemaxwell

Resources from Eve
The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve
Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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